In the home/tiny apartment of my boyfriend’s 19 year old sister:
Maddy: like how long ago did you paint them?
Me: Like I just painted them
Me: I had to have my dad get my keys out for me because I just…
Maddy: Oh Jesus god
Me: Ok, so start with your name and what you’re doing with your life.
Maddy: My name is Maddy Evenson and I go to school full time with a tiny job on the side
Me: Where do you go to school?
Me: What are you majoring in?
Me: What’s your age and how do you feel about it?
Maddy: I’m 19, I’ll be 20 in September, and I feel very worried about turning 20 because in your twenties you’re supposed to get married and have kids and buy a house and I don’t know when I’m going to be done with all my school so that kind of worries me.
Me: You have an apartment so you’re like halfway there.
Maddy: Yea halfway there.
Me: What was your biggest challenge of becoming an adult.
Maddy: Um I’m really close to my mom so probably being away from her. I do get homesick even though I’m only a block away. That and managing money. I’m pretty good at it but when you live on your own you actually have to buy food and like kleenex which is stuff you don’t really think about when you live with your parents.
Me: That sounds terrible. Do you manage your boyfriends finances too?
Maddy: Yea, Chance isn’t very good at it, but I’m not one to talk I just bought a purse online and it was not cheap but it’s a collectors item.
Me: oooo. ok this is a very broad question, what is the biggest realization you’ve ever had?
Maddy: I guess in general, in life, that I’ll probably be ok. As long as I stay with Chance and stick to my plan, my life will be ok.
Me: good realization. Now a much less serious question. What’s your favorite movie and why?
Maddy: I always say Easy A which is totally not my favorite movie now but I’ve put it down on so many things. I think she is so funny and I think the whole “I’m a whore” thing in highschool is so funny.
Me: Yea it’s the only movie that had anything to do with the scarlet letter, that was good.
Maddy: I need to read that book
Me: It’s terrible. I hated it.
Maddy: Yea it should be terrible, it’s a stupid thing to write about.
Me: What are some of your inspirations and why?
Maddy: well I would say something that inspires me currently is that if I work hard, I get good grades, and I do well then I will get a career that I enjoy. What you want to do is a big thing in adult hood too because you think about what you want to do and some people don’t know so it’s something you figure out.
Me: What is the best part about adulthood?
Maddy: the best part is that I don’t have to deal with family which sounds bad but i come home from work and instead of being quiet I can just do whatever.
Me: What is the worst part?
Maddy: The money part… I really shouldn’t have gotten that bag.
Me: What is one piece of of adult advice you have?
Maddy: Well if you and Zac go into the adulthood thing together, which I hope you do, just be nice to each other and be honest. I feel like it’s easier to do stuff in life if you have someone to do it with. Just be good to the person you spend your life with.